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018: The Courage to Decline
How saying "No" to seemingly great opportunities helped a Billionaire CEO change the World
We live in the age of Distraction, with constant bombardments of requests vying for our attention ALL THE TIME!
Time & Attention, it seems, have become our most valuable assets.
We often feel pressured to say "yes" to everything, whether it's a social obligation or a work request.
But what if we started saying "no" more often?
What if we prioritized our own goals and needs instead of constantly catering to the demands of others?
Although this isn’t a new concept, nor its the first time we’re discussing this, we'll explore further today the power of saying "no" through the lens of one of the geniuses & a flawed hero of our time, Steve Jobs

Steve was known for his innovative ideas and relentless pursuit of perfection. But what many people don't know is that Jobs was also a master of saying "no."
Innovation, he said, is saying no to 1,000 things. He knew that in order to achieve greatness, he had to focus on the most important tasks and say "no" to everything else.
Jobs was known for being ruthless when it came to eliminating distractions and unnecessary projects. He would often reject ideas that didn't align with his vision for the company, even if they seemed promising.
By saying "no" to distractions, Jobs was able to focus on the projects that truly mattered.
This approach led to the creation of some of the most revolutionary products of our time, including the iPhone, iPad, and MacBook.
Here's a breakdown of how he did it
The Importance of Focus
Steve Jobs was known for his incredible focus and attention to detail. He understood that in order to create truly great products, you had to say no to a lot of other things.
Jobs famously said, "People think focus means saying yes to the thing you've got to focus on. But that's not what it means at all. It means saying no to the hundred other good ideas that there are. You have to pick carefully. I'm actually as proud of the things we haven't done as the things I have done."
Saying No to Distractions
Jobs was also incredibly disciplined when it came to avoiding distractions.
He was known for being very particular about who he allowed into his inner circle, and he often said no to people or ideas that didn't fit with his vision.
For example, when Jobs returned to Apple in 1997, he immediately got rid of all of the company's extraneous products and focused solely on the Mac.
Saying No to Compromise
Jobs was famous for his uncompromising attitude when it came to product design.
He believed that in order to create truly great products, you had to be willing to say no to anything that didn't meet your standards.
For example, when Jobs was designing the first iPod, he insisted that the device have a minimalist design with no extra buttons or features. This was a radical departure from the norm at the time, but it ended up being a key factor in the iPod's success.
Saying No to the Convention
Finally, Jobs was a firm believer in the power of thinking differently. He believed that in order to create something truly great, you had to be willing to challenge convention and break the rules.
For example, when Jobs was designing the first iPhone, he insisted that the device have a completely touch-based interface with no physical keyboard. This was a risky move, but it ended up revolutionizing the entire smartphone industry.
Closing Thoughts
Saying "No" can be a valuable tool for achieving success and fulfilment. By learning to prioritize our own goals and needs, we can eliminate distractions and focus on what truly matters.
Steve Jobs was a master of saying no. He understood that in order to create something truly great, you had to be willing to focus, avoid distractions, refuse to compromise, and challenge convention. And while it wasn't always easy, his willingness to say no is undoubtedly a key factor in his incredible success.
So the next time you're faced with a request that doesn't align with your goals, take a step back & say "No."
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